Do you believe that a guy will become a changed man after marriage?
She : Always sleep so late around 4am, it will damage your liver. You
should really stop smoking and practice healthy lifestyle.
He : My mom will
like you because you are both so alike.
She : If you are unable to follow your mom’s
advise, I don’t think you will follow other people’s advise.
He : You never know. I might meet that
special someone, in this instance, a very special “piglet” whose advise I will eventually follow.
She : By the time you “eventually” follow, it
might be after few years. Definitely you will be a “spare tire” forever, not a brake and seatbelt for the person you
love.
He : It might be fast, it might be slow but I
know that I would definitely be a changed man once I have settled down (ie. After marriage). 
She : You better find someone special who is
willing to trust your words. For my single friends, all of us don’t believe any promises from guys.
If you’re given an option to gamble, which one will you
choose?
1) With all of your money in a casino
2) With your whole life happiness – Your current dating
partner is smoking, practicing unhealthy lifestyle and unwilling to change
himself even after you’ve voiced up your complaint to him so many times in 1
year, but he is so confident and ensure you that he will REALLY change himself
100% become a better man after you get marry with him.
Questions :
- What kind of ridiculous promise is this?
- Why can’t he change himself now and MUST wait for the
marriage to prove himself?
- What will happen to you IF he doesn’t change himself as
per promised earlier?
In the reality, there are so much real examples showing us
that guys will turn “worse” after getting married. Those become a better man
after marriage is really low percentage. I truly believe that nowadays most
ladies are smart enough to make a wise selection on which to gamble. For me, I
would rather lose all my money in the gambling than my whole life happiness
which will make me suffer for the rest of my life.
September 8th, 2008 at 8:56 pm
Agreed, don’t ever think people (men or women) will change so easily. See the person for who they are. Try to ignore all the initial kind gestures when the person is trying to impress you because that’s not their true color. Ask yourself some simple questions: on average, does that person treat me well and make me happy? Making excuses for them now will get you hurt in the long run.